Discipleship (Part I)
What is discipleship? Discipleship was the focus of both my master’s thesis and my doctoral dissertation. One of the things I have learned is that the church is desperately lacking clarity on the meaning of discipleship. Despite having read many dozens of books on the topic, I cannot remember a single example of an author defining discipleship the way Jesus did. From Matthew 28:19-20a, we can determine that a disciple is someone who does the things Jesus commanded us to do, which includes teaching others to do the same. We see this depicted in the Gospels, with Jesus sending out the Twelve disciples (Luke 9:1-6) and then seventy-two others (Luke 10:1-23), to preach the Kingdom, cleanse the lepers, drive out demons, heal the sick, and raise the dead. Jesus called disciples to Himself, taught them, modeled life and ministry for them, and then sent them out to do as they had seen Him do.
Jesus said things like, ‘The student, when fully grown, will be like the teacher’ (Luke 6:40). He said that those who believe in Him will do the same works as Him, and even greater works (John 14:12). I often use this illustration: Let’s say you’re a licensed electrician, and I become your apprentice because I want to learn the trade. If, after a number of years as your apprentice, I am unable to launch out on my own and become an electrician, then either: 1) you are a terrible teacher, 2) I am a terrible student, or 3) we both share a faulty understanding of apprenticeship. I think it’s fair to argue that we can substitute the word ‘discipleship’ for the word ‘apprenticeship’ in this illustration, and transfer the focus from competencies related to electrical work to those related to the Kingdom. Why do so few people in church end up with a life and ministry like Jesus?
I would suggest that it’s because we have a different goal. Without going into the story of how we got here, I think we can safely say that most churches are focused on turning people into good church members as opposed to equipping them to have a life and ministry like Jesus. If on Sunday, the pastor at the average church in America got up and said, ‘Everyone who can tell me something Jesus commanded us, as His disciples, to do, raise your hand,’ I think things would get extremely awkward after six or seven people answered. As a point of reference, Jesus gave His disciples about eighty commands—commands that are general enough that we can apply them to our lives today (with appropriate modifications for the differences in our context compared to that of His first-century disciples). I know this because I spent two full years preaching through them at our church.‡
The single biggest issue, in my estimation, is the idol of growth. Not spiritual growth, but numerical growth. We have this idea that the size of our churches is the measure of our ministerial success. Don’t get me wrong, healthy things grow. I’m not suggesting that small is an indicator of faithfulness. But I do think we have traded faithfulness in making disciples for success in accumulating church members. If I, as a pastor, grow a church to 800 or 1,000, or 5,000 people, filled with people who continue to ‘sit under’ my ministry and faithfully attend service each week, and they end up being mere spectators, spiritual dependents, more or less ignorant of the things Jesus commanded His disciples to do, and not in any way moving toward the goal of having a life and ministry like Jesus, whose model of ministry am I following? And by whose definition have I succeeded in ministry?
It’s time for us to reclaim Jesus’ definition of discipleship. I regularly tell my church that I have no desire for all of them to be sitting before me, listening to me preach and teach, five years from now. I hope that as many of them as possible will launch out into a ministry of their own—or will at least be as activated in ministry as possible, at a level appropriate to their preparedness and maturity. Keep in mind, though, that Jesus sent the Twelve and the Seventy-Two out with less than three years’ worth of discipleship. Reclaiming Jesus’ definition of discipleship may require us to revisit our standards of preparedness in light of Jesus’ practice.
One of my former leaders (District Superintendent, Dr. Bret Allen) told me this once (I’m paraphrasing): Whatever the ministry task, you’re always going to be able to do it better than the people in your church. You’ve been to school. You’ve been doing it full-time for years. But it’s not about how well you can do it. It’s about how many other people you can get doing it. This quote has dramatically changed the way I view and do ministry. Especially in an era where pastors curate a celebrity image of themselves via social media, one of my chief goals is to de-platform myself and empower others to do what I do.
If you’re a pastor, I would challenge you to rethink discipleship. You may have to soul-search and discern whether your heart has been captivated by the idol of size (or any of a number of other characteristics of ‘the successful church’). You may find (as I did) that you have to reorder your organizational priorities and restructure your church. But isn’t it worth some temporary discomfort to exchange the pressure of success for a measure of your ministry that is based on faithfulness?
It’s not just pastors who have contributed to church-member culture (as opposed to discipleship culture). For the role of the pastor to have developed into what it is today—in which she/he is the only one who people see as capable of leading and facilitating, teaching and preaching, marrying and burying, providing counsel, comfort, and prayer—there have to be churches full of individuals who don’t want anyone else but the pastor to play those roles in their lives. The flip side of this, by the way, is an unspoken belief that no one else (including you) is capable of doing much that we consider meaningful in the Christian life for anyone else in the church.
Perhaps you’ve seen or heard a statistic like this before. Still, it bears repeating: if just 1,000 Christians made one disciple each year, and each additional disciple made one disciple per year, in 23 years, everyone on the planet would be a follower of Jesus. Let that sink in. Now think about all of the things that churches spend time and energy on, and what busy places churches can be. How many disciples—not church members—result from all of that time, money, and busyness? By any reasonable measure, what we’ve been doing has not been that effective. Why do we keep doing it?
Whether or not you’re a pastor, you can be part of the solution to the crisis in discipleship… today. Pick up the New Testament and start reading the Gospels. Ask yourself: how can I obey the teaching of Jesus—and imitate the life and ministry of Jesus—today? Who else can I involve, so that she or he might be encouraged to practice the way of Jesus as well? How different could things be—how significant and far-reaching could the ripple effects be—if this were the default mode of each person who self-identifies as a Christian? Regardless of whether anyone else does, why don’t you?
‡ I typically preach three Sundays per month. I am not including implicit commands that could be distilled from parables, and this doesn’t take into consideration the many commands found in either the epistles or those in the Hebrew Scriptures, of which Jesus would have no doubt affirmed the continuing appropriateness for His followers.